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Kathy Weckwerth

Keeping Your Foothold On Shaky Ground

January 24, 2017 by Kathy Weckwerth

I remember four years ago when our little 1900’s church was moved to the south grove at our farm.  It was a time of great excitement, deep joy, and happy anticipation.

As a few trees were cleared, grounds were measured, cement blocks were put into place and we awaited the arrival of the beautiful old building.

The land was flat and empty towards the main road, and nothing seemed to grow there.  Farmer Dean planted trees, shrubs, plants, and flowers to no avail.  Nothing worked for him.  Nothing would grow.

I often wondered why it was this way.  Dean explained to me that in the late 1800s  early 1900s, a family owned a big old house there.  (Where in the world did it go because I think I would have loved it!).  Apparently farmers push down buildings, barns, and outbuildings when they don’t have a need for them, or when they would rather have land for crops, or when the buildings are in disrepair.

Because of the old rubble everywhere, Dean didn’t think anything was taking root in the ground. He told me, “Where nothing would grow, we’ll plant a church.”  And so we did.

The trek from rural Murdock, MN took approximately 6.5 hours and was filled with a few mild scares, but nothing detrimental.  We followed along in our van behind the church for awhile, and then set out for home to prepare for the arrival.

Once the church arrived and was placed on its new foundation, we had a couple of months to wait until we could get the ground pushed back around the building and get some steps in at the front of the building.  Everything moved pretty slowly for me.

During this time, HGTV’s show, “Massive Moves” out of Canada had been following us (along with Jason Davis On the Road and PBS’ Postcards).  Two kind gents from England, full of life, laughter, and awesome accents were by our side for approximately three weeks straight.  We lived, ate, and breathed the preparation for the move, the going away service, and then the actual move.

These young camera men and producers returned from England six weeks later to film again.  Dean always fretted because we didn’t have much time to work on any of our restoration process, but nevertheless, they arrived and needed to finish their show.

As Dean and the crew climbed up an old rickety ladder into the back door of the church, I found out something about myself I didn’t know.  I was scared.  They kept saying, “Come on, let’s go.”  Impatient as the three of them were, it did nothing to encourage me along.

After a few steps up on the ladder rungs, I felt the ladder shimmying back and forth.  I was on shaky ground.  Not on ground at all, and I felt unsafe.

They kept shouting to hurry up.  I kept looking down, then up, and then I stopped.  I couldn’t be in the middle.  I had to have a safe foothold somewhere and it wasn’t on the ladder.

With each step, I shook … literally.

When I finally pressed on and made it into the church, I determined to live there until the steps arrived.  I could sleep in the pews, right?

But, alas, I had to return back down to the ground and on the shaky ladder I climbed and made it back down with the pressuring and cheering of the men.

This story reminds me of life lately.  The pressures of our peers.  The statements of the press.  The thrashing of the political arena.  None have felt safe.  No mere words that men or women spout off make me feel like I’ve landed on steady ground.

And just like being on the wobbly ladder, I remembered something:  I cannot trust the world, just as I couldn’t trust an old rickety ladder.  I cannot trust the words of mere mortals, their feelings and emotions, or their bending of truth.

“Thus says the Lord: “Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord.” Jeremiah 17:5

Instead, there is only One Source for solid ground.  God the Father.  God the Son.  God the Holy Spirit.

I will declare they are my firm foundation.  And right now, I’m tired of standing on a ladder and feeling wobbly.

[callout]Thank you, God, for being a solid foundation.  I’ll stand before you thanking and praising.[/callout]

“My feet stand on level ground; in the great congregation I will praise the Lord.”  Psalm 26:12

Looking Back for God Moments

January 2, 2017 by Kathy Weckwerth

As each year is ushered out with the ringing in of the New Year, I take time to contemplate on life … my life, my job, my family, my friends, and God’s goodness.

I look back at the months and ask myself …  where did God meet me?

Did I find Him in moments of joy as I looked into the eyes of my grandchildren? Was He there in conversations with guests on my radio show?  Did I see Him in the tears of women who attended our Best Life conferences?  Or was I aware of His presence in the everyday world here at the farm?

Over the course of my life, I have found it important to take a step back and look at the bigger picture.  When I am focused in on myself and my failures, or worse yet, my disappointments in what has occurred or even in others, I only see a miniscule section of a very big picture.  So often, I find myself feeling alone.

But I have trained myself to step back now and look for God.  I look for God in the big moments, when He is found clearly in directing my steps.  I look for Him in my dark moments when I feel His presence in my soul.  I wait for Him in the blurry moments when I don’t know what to do.

But mostly what I have found over this past year of 2016, is that when I seek God for everything … I see Him in everything.

What about you?  Have you taken time to reflect on the goodness of God over this past year?  It’s time to look back and see where God showed up, where He met you and where you truly sought His presence.

Let’s declare that 2017 will be a great year.  Let’s work at becoming our best version of ourselves!

I Chron. 22:19, “Now set your heart and your soul to seek the Lord your God. “

The Peace of Christmas

December 13, 2016 by Kathy Weckwerth

 

 

When I get to the Christmas season, I begin to do some comparison shopping.  No, I don’t mean the kind where I’m looking to see if Target has a better sale than Walmart.  I mean, the kind where I look to see … how is everyone else handling things?

How are my relatives, friends, co-workers handling the pressures of the season?  I want to compare myself and see if I’m measuring up.  Am I tired out?  Am I critical and cranky?  Am I accomplishing all that I need to do?

The answer to those are as follows:  yes, yes, no.

I’m not getting it all done and I have found that I often have a bad attitude to accompany the day-in-day-out drama.

This morning I headed over to the little church.  I walked in the door to feel the warm sunshine bursting through the windows.  The temperature gauge registered -5 degrees below zero, but inside, well, something was different.  There was a welcoming warmth that I took time to enjoy.

The new furnace hummed a quiet tune, while the Christmas trimmings glistened in the rays of sunlight.  I looked at the accomplishments of photos from the past … the pastors from 1897 to the 1980s.  I looked at pictures of their families, their farms, the parsonage, and I relished in the fact that whatever they’d accomplished for God, I knew it was great work!

Over the past three weeks, I have played piano at nursing homes, I have been a main session speaker for events, produced my radio show and magazine, have done many things, and each time I get finished I have a feeling of satisfaction. Maybe I didn’t get everything done perfectly.  Maybe I didn’t check everything off of my list.  But for today, here in the warmth of the little church that Farmer Dean and I bought for $1.00 four years ago, I feel a peace.  I feel a peace that scripture talks about … one that passes all understanding.  A peace that envelopes my spirit and says, “You’re doing just fine.  Keep up the good work.”

Christmas isn’t about the presents and cookies.  It’s not even about the events and sing-a-longs.  It’s simply about the Savior. He’s come to bring salvation and peace into a world in turmoil.  Into a soul in turmoil.  And as He sends the light through the glorious old windows of the church, I see Him there … in the rays of sun, in the warmth through the bitter cold, and in my heart.  Welcome Christ Child!  Bring your peace.

10 Tips to a Peaceful Christmas Season

November 28, 2016 by Kathy Weckwerth

tree-and-roadSometimes in the busyness of the season, we become frantic trying to grasp what we believe is “the perfect” Christmas eve. For years, people have tried to dictate the perfect gifts to give, the perfect Christmas card to create, the perfect cookies to bake, and the perfect meal to make. We’ve tried it all and here’s what the staff at Best Life Ministries knows … the only perfect thing about Christmas is the Christ child!

This year, join us as we work on feeling grateful, thankful, calm, and at peace with our lives, our family, our friends, our jobs, and our world. After all, peace starts with us.

This Christmas, make things simple:

  1. Set your table ahead of time. The holiday table settings and centerpiece will make the room look festive and you’re ready to go!
  1. Decorate your tree early. Enjoy it every single day! The season is short.
  1. Make yourself go to bed at a decent time each night. You want to be your best.
  1. Listen to Christmas music. Put Christmas CDs in your car and your CD player.
  1. Check out local TV listings like the Hallmark channels and UP TV for good-feeling movies. Many of them have the true Christmas message!
  1. Mark your calendar for fun events. Be careful not to overbook.
  1. Bake an extra batch of cookies. Find needy people (elderly, college kids at the dorm, singles, and businesses) and deliver happiness.
  1. Purchase presents and wrap them throughout the year. Make a list and stick to it! Make sure you do not go overboard, even though you may be tempted to do so.
  1. Allow family and friends to help. Often people offer to help and we ignore them. This year accept their help; it will benefit you both.
  1. Read the Christmas Story. You can find the story in Luke 2 and Matthew 1.

The season isn’t meant for perfection, it’s meant for remembering the only One who is perfect. Enjoy it … savor the moments with family and friends … and start 2017 out right! Merry CHRISTmas!

Dealing With Frustration

November 19, 2016 by Kathy Weckwerth

p1070430Over the past few weeks I asked God a question I’ve asked Him before.  I asked, “Do you ever feel sad that you created us?”  I wonder what He would say if He was walking next to us like He did with Adam and Eve.

The election made some people angry, brought out the worst of some of those around me, and yet, it brought out the best in many.

I watched as Franklin Graham stepped up to his role as a God-called leader and prayed with every state in the nation.

I applauded as I saw Godly political leaders come together and unite in thoughts and prayers.

I listened as churches across the country were hosting prayer meetings.

I was surprised as well known leaders in Christian roles spouted off nonsense.

I was humored as Hollywood stars threatened to leave their homeland.

But mostly, I was disappointed  and frustrated in several within my own private world.  You know what I mean.  The day in and day out people who you are connected with.

As I posted on Facebook a simple plea to fellow Christ followers everywhere to join in prayer for unity for our nation, for the new president elect, and for the current president as he releases his role, I was bombarded by people I’d known for over 30 years … and strangers.  And might I just add … it was not pleasant.

Many of my friends scolded me and said, “That’s why I’m not posting anything about it on my page.  I don’t want to upset people.”

Several of my friends from 30 years ago attacked my 75+ year old friends from my Bible study.  They’d never even met them.  They called them names, attacked their beliefs, and generally insulted me and my elderly friends.

Some said they’d pray.  Some said they were sick of the whole thing.  Some deleted me as their friend.

I asked myself, is this what Christ did?  Really … Is this what He did?  I don’t want to heal because I might offend?  I don’t want to provide instruction because it might hurt someone’s feelings?  I don’t want to preach to the crowds because they might think I’m insensitive to their needs, their nationality, and their disposition.

I don’t think so.

A spirit of tolerance has taken over and glazed the eyes and minds of many. And yet, they are responding to the tolerance with great intolerance.

Last time I looked in my Bible … Jesus helped a Samaritan woman at the well, taught 5,000 people on the hill, broke bread and ate fish with a multitude of people from all over, corrected religious leaders in the temple, told the Pharisees and Sadducees what was truth and then went in front of Roman soldiers to get ready for His journey to the cross.

He didn’t worry about offending.  He purposed to follow His Father, God.

How did I deal with the frustration of losing friends, seeing the worst in people, and tolerating the lashes against myself and others?  I prayed.  I stepped back and looked at it and prayed.

Frustration is an emotion.  It comes from people doing something we don’t want them to do.  We can’t control them or their actions.  We can control our own responses, reactions, and need to check our Source for how He responded.

I’m still frustrated.  I’m still working through shock and hurt.  People surprised me, and not necessarily in a good way.

But I look at the end of the 33 years that Christ lived and I’m reminded of this one thing … He died for it all … the fighting, the arguing, the harsh cruel words, the deep cutting remarks, the turning away from truth, and the bullying.

[callout]In the end, He had enough reason for the cross.  So next time I ask the Father if He’s sad, I can only imagine He’d remind me that’s why He sent His Son. [/callout]

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