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What’s in Your Closet

April 14, 2017 by Kathy Weckwerth

In television comedies, like I Love Lucy, an actor opens a surreptitiously bulging door to a storage area and is buried in an avalanche of junk. Something similar happened one day when all three of my daughters visited my home. My youngest, Jenessa, tried to open the basement closet door.

A small pow-wow between the girls produced determined attitudes. They announced it was time to clean out the big-crowded basement closet and they would help. The basement closet is everyone’s typical basement closet. It’s the place where everyone’s junk gets tossed. Three daughters, a mom and dad, all pitch whatever they don’t want to think about, into this big walk-in closet.

The shelves go from floor to ceiling and they are peppered with big plastic bins. You know the kind of stuff that’s in those bins … the things that you just don’t have a clue where to put them. They are the things you want to store, because you can’t make yourself get rid of them. You tuck them away, close the lid and walk away.

But middle daughter Chandra headed down the stairs and said, “I’m facing the bins. I’m facing the clothes and boots I don’t want, the old CDs, the stacks of books. I’m facing it all.”

Just like that she pulled out one of her bins without realizing that our old Monopoly game that’s taped together (it’s a throwback to 1975 and escaped the bin storage), money torn and pieces missing, was quickly scattered across the floor.

There we were, all four of us scrunched into this closet looking for pieces of the game.  There was some money; there was the thimble, a couple of green houses, a red hotel, and a Go Directly to Jail card. We started trying to put them all back in the box.

Jenessa said, “Mom, pieces of this game have been missing forever. We should really dump it all out and see what’s in it and go from there.”

And suddenly it dawned on me! That’s what we need to do today. We need to take a good long look at what’s in our hearts. We need to dump everything out and look at our motivations, our intentions, and our actions. We need to figure out where the words and feelings are coming from, why they’re in there, what it looks like, and if we have just taped up the box and shoved it on the shelf with pieces that are missing, torn or broken. We need to dump it all out today and take a look to see what we’ve got.

King David is referring to God when he says, “Create in me a pure heart, oh God.” In order to dump out his own words and look at them, he’s going to replace what’s in there with the good stuff of God … right back into the box of his mind and heart … seal it up with some strong God-tape… and go from there.

We stuff life in, we keep things we don’t need to and harbor resentment that tatters and frays the edges of our heart and then we stuff it all in and put it back on the shelf of the closet of life. But that stuff, those pieces, will eventually come out. Often, if we’re not totally aware of what we’ve stored in the heart’s bin, it will come out sideways resulting in sin.

It’s time to dump everything out. It’s time to go through the pieces and see what belongs and what you need to clean out. Let’s start with a spring cleaning of the heart and soul. Let’s open the doors, breathe in the fresh air, and feel renewed.

Proverbs 4:23, “Keep vigilant watch over your heart; that’s where life starts.”

 

Looking Back for God Moments

January 2, 2017 by Kathy Weckwerth

As each year is ushered out with the ringing in of the New Year, I take time to contemplate on life … my life, my job, my family, my friends, and God’s goodness.

I look back at the months and ask myself …  where did God meet me?

Did I find Him in moments of joy as I looked into the eyes of my grandchildren? Was He there in conversations with guests on my radio show?  Did I see Him in the tears of women who attended our Best Life conferences?  Or was I aware of His presence in the everyday world here at the farm?

Over the course of my life, I have found it important to take a step back and look at the bigger picture.  When I am focused in on myself and my failures, or worse yet, my disappointments in what has occurred or even in others, I only see a miniscule section of a very big picture.  So often, I find myself feeling alone.

But I have trained myself to step back now and look for God.  I look for God in the big moments, when He is found clearly in directing my steps.  I look for Him in my dark moments when I feel His presence in my soul.  I wait for Him in the blurry moments when I don’t know what to do.

But mostly what I have found over this past year of 2016, is that when I seek God for everything … I see Him in everything.

What about you?  Have you taken time to reflect on the goodness of God over this past year?  It’s time to look back and see where God showed up, where He met you and where you truly sought His presence.

Let’s declare that 2017 will be a great year.  Let’s work at becoming our best version of ourselves!

I Chron. 22:19, “Now set your heart and your soul to seek the Lord your God. “

The Peace of Christmas

December 13, 2016 by Kathy Weckwerth

 

 

When I get to the Christmas season, I begin to do some comparison shopping.  No, I don’t mean the kind where I’m looking to see if Target has a better sale than Walmart.  I mean, the kind where I look to see … how is everyone else handling things?

How are my relatives, friends, co-workers handling the pressures of the season?  I want to compare myself and see if I’m measuring up.  Am I tired out?  Am I critical and cranky?  Am I accomplishing all that I need to do?

The answer to those are as follows:  yes, yes, no.

I’m not getting it all done and I have found that I often have a bad attitude to accompany the day-in-day-out drama.

This morning I headed over to the little church.  I walked in the door to feel the warm sunshine bursting through the windows.  The temperature gauge registered -5 degrees below zero, but inside, well, something was different.  There was a welcoming warmth that I took time to enjoy.

The new furnace hummed a quiet tune, while the Christmas trimmings glistened in the rays of sunlight.  I looked at the accomplishments of photos from the past … the pastors from 1897 to the 1980s.  I looked at pictures of their families, their farms, the parsonage, and I relished in the fact that whatever they’d accomplished for God, I knew it was great work!

Over the past three weeks, I have played piano at nursing homes, I have been a main session speaker for events, produced my radio show and magazine, have done many things, and each time I get finished I have a feeling of satisfaction. Maybe I didn’t get everything done perfectly.  Maybe I didn’t check everything off of my list.  But for today, here in the warmth of the little church that Farmer Dean and I bought for $1.00 four years ago, I feel a peace.  I feel a peace that scripture talks about … one that passes all understanding.  A peace that envelopes my spirit and says, “You’re doing just fine.  Keep up the good work.”

Christmas isn’t about the presents and cookies.  It’s not even about the events and sing-a-longs.  It’s simply about the Savior. He’s come to bring salvation and peace into a world in turmoil.  Into a soul in turmoil.  And as He sends the light through the glorious old windows of the church, I see Him there … in the rays of sun, in the warmth through the bitter cold, and in my heart.  Welcome Christ Child!  Bring your peace.

Stock Up on Best Life’s Favorite Spring Things!

April 6, 2016 by Kathy Weckwerth

With spring arriving, it’s time to think about freshening up that dull skin, limp hair, and dried out hands!  Here are some of our favorite products.  You can find them at your local Walmart, Target, or Walgreens!  Freshen up, lighten up, and lift your spirits!

  1. Goody Hair bands $2.17
  2. Body Benefits Body Buff $2.00
  3. Simple Sensitive Skin Experts Radiance Cleansing Wipes (Pack of 2) $13.45
  4. Sally Hansen Insta-Dri nailpolish $3.99
  5. Calgon Luminous Bath Pearls $13.69
  6. Bath and Body Works Soap in Stress relief eucalyptus $7.50
  7. Conair Hairbrush $3.88
  8. Bath and Body Works Body Lotion in Stress relief Eucalyptus Spearmint $13.00
  9. Burt’s Bees Lip Shimmer in Caramel $4.50
  10. Swisspers Cotton Applicators $2.06

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Six Soul Cleaning Steps

April 6, 2016 by Kathy Weckwerth

clean-1445150Soul Cleaning is a much-needed attempt to clear out your heart and mind and get you in a better place to walk away refreshed and restored.

In scripture, we will often read the cries of a distressed heart from King David.  After David has been in sin, he cries out to God and says … time for a soul cleaning … Psalm 26:2, “Test me, Lord, and try me, examine my heart and mind.”  He’s planning on blowing the cobwebs off of his dusty soul.

Here are some steps to spiritually take this spring, to clean out those closets and cobwebs of your heart and soul.

  1. Find a quiet, restful place and begin to think and journal about the weeks or month.
  1. Ask the Holy Spirit to convict you and show you where you have unresolved issues and sin.
  1. Spend some time contemplating how you got to that place of sin and determine how you can avoid revisiting this same issue again.
  1. Confess your sin before God and mentally imagine a big huge Mr. Clean eraser removing everything you’re confessing.
  1. Walk away with a renewed sense of freedom and restoration from sin.
  1. Commit to God that you will begin the steps to daily confess and keep your heart, mind, and spirit forgiven by God’s grace and your mind will remain de-cluttered.

daisy-in-the-sun-1397229[callout]When you make time for self reflection and confession, you will continually keep your heart and mind free, de-cluttered, and ready to live your best life![/callout]

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